The Sacred Evolution of Worthy Wands

Can I tell you a story?

Not the polished one. The real one. The one that started not with a plan, but with a breakdown.

Back in 2017, my life was unraveling. My engagement ended. My relationship was over. And I couldn’t outrun the ache anymore.
I remember sitting in therapy, trying to connect with my inner child, and she just... wouldn’t come forward. So I asked her, “What do you need to feel safe?”

She didn’t hesitate.
She said, “You need to love yourself. To trust yourself.
Save yourself before you try to save anyone else.”

Then she added something that cracked me wide open:
“Anchor yourself.”

I didn’t have one.
So I made one.

The First Worthy Wand: A Necklace That Became a Lifeline

I went to a Things Engraved store and had a necklace stamped with two words I didn’t yet believe but desperately needed to remember:

Worthy. Enough.

I wore it every day.
At first, it felt like pretending.
But then… something shifted.

I started standing taller. Speaking softer. Showing up for myself.
That necklace became more than jewelry. It became a ritual. A lifeline. A mirror.

What I didn't realize at the time was that I was creating what would become affirmation jewelry designed for nervous system regulation - a completely new category of intentional jewelry.

The Science Behind the Shift: Studying with the Masters

Around that time, I was traveling with Tony Robbins. I had the chance to learn from Dr. Joe Dispenza, who said something that stuck with me: repetition rewires the brain. Then Dr. Bruce Lipton taught me how our thoughts and rituals can literally shift our biology.

That was the moment I knew this wasn’t just emotional. It was neurological.
I went deeper. Studied neuroscience.
Got certified in NLP by Dr. Richard Bandler.
And it all clicked.

I wasn’t just healing my heart. I was retraining my mind.
I was creating safety in my body.
I was anchoring new truth into my cells, one breath, one choice, one day at a time.

That necklace wasn’t just helping me feel better.
It was helping me become someone new.

This is the foundation of what would become frequency jewelry at Worthy Wands - not just beautiful adornment, but a somatic tool backed by neuroscience, designed to help your nervous system remember safety and worth.

From Personal Healing to a Movement for Women

That’s how Worthy Wands started.
Not with a branding plan.
With a nervous system desperate for peace.
With a woman trying to remember her own enoughness.

I created the first Wand for me. But I knew right away  if it worked for me, it could work for others too. So I started sharing it. And women started writing in, telling me what was shifting for them. How they felt steadier. Clearer. Calmer. Like they were remembering something ancient.

What started as a single "Worthy" necklace in 2017 has now become a full ecosystem of transformation tools - from mantra bracelets to nervous system assessments to the book launching in 2026.

But I also realized… the necklace wasn’t the only part of my healing.
It was how I was living with it. The rituals. The awareness. The breath. The boundaries. The nervous system regulation.

What I had lived, I began to map.
What felt intuitive at first became embodied.
And eventually, it became a method.

The Birth of the ANCHOR™ Method

The ANCHOR™ Method is what holds it all together now.
Six pillars. One sacred practice.
It’s not about performing worthiness. It’s about regulating into it.
It’s not just mindset. It’s frequency.

The ANCHOR Method is a proprietary nervous system framework I developed based on my own journey and advanced training in NLP, neuroscience, and somatic healing. Each letter represents a pillar of transformation:

A - Awareness: Recognizing the patterns and beliefs you're carrying
N - Nervous System: Honoring what safety feels like in your body
C - Choice: Creating micro-alignments to shift your state
H - Honor: Living in integrity with your values
O - Ownership: Taking full responsibility for your frequency and power
R - Remembrance: Returning to the truth that you were always worthy

This framework became the foundation for everything we create at Worthy Wands - from the frequencies our jewelry embodies to the ANCHOR Method Assessment that helps you discover which pillar needs your attention most.

The Ecosystem: Jewelry, Method, Book, and Mirror

The jewelry is the anchor.
The method is the map.
The book, You Are the Anchor, is the story ( coming 2026 ) the full remembering.
And The Anchor is our digital soul mirror. She is the newest piece. She helps you choose your frequency. She meets you in your moment. She reflects you back to yourself.

Today, Worthy Wands is a complete transformation ecosystem:

The Jewelry: Somatic anchors you were daily - from the signature Worthy/Enough necklace to a full frequency based collection.

The ANCHOR Method: Is our six-pillar nervous system framework that maps the journey from proving your worth to anchoring in it

The Book: You Are The Anchor: my 78,000 word memoir and method guide launching in 2026

Ask The Anchor: Our AI tool that helps you discover your frequency and choose the piece that matches your nervous system's needs.

From Shelters to Prisons: The Impact of Anchoring

We’ve brought this work into shelters, into prisons, into circles of women reclaiming their voice. And every time someone puts on a Wand, it’s like watching a nervous system exhale.

One man said, "We never take them off. It's a promise to our soul. Forgetting our worth put us behind bars. Remembering it is where the story changed."

That’s the power of anchoring.

Over 30,000 women (and men) have now anchored into their worth through Worthy Wands. What started as my personal healing ritual has become a movement of remembrance - proof that nervous system regulation and self-worth aren't luxuries, they're necessities.

This Is Where We're Going

So if you’ve been following along for a while and wondering where this is all going… this is it.

It’s not just jewelry anymore.
It never really was.

It’s a system. A story. A way of being.

You don’t need to earn your worth.
You don’t need to prove anything.
You just need to remember.
And anchor it in.

That’s what Worthy Wands was always meant to be.

And you ...
You are the anchor.

Ready to Begin Your Anchoring Journey?

If this story resonated with you, it's because you're ready to remember your own worth.

Start here:

Explore The Anchor Bar - Find the piece that speaks to your nervous system

Take the ANCHOR Method Assessment - Discover which of the six pillars you need to focus on most

Learn About the ANCHOR Method - Understand the framework that's helping thousands regulate into their worth

Come find us on social media @worthywands 

The breakdown that started this all taught me something sacred: You don't need to be more. You just need to remember.

Welcome home.