Welcome back, love.

In Part One, we explored the truth that self-love begins not with performance, but with perspective. Through the eyes of God, Source, Spirit, through the eyes of love, you are already whole.

Already worthy. Already enough.

But if that’s true...
Why is it still so hard to feel it?

Because along the path to self-love, there are sacred obstacles, each one asking not to block you, but to build you.

Let’s walk through them together.

1. Comparison

The Lie: She’s ahead. You’re behind.
The Truth: You are incomparable.

Comparison is a distortion, not a reflection. It magnifies her highlight reel and minimizes your becoming.
But the only time you can feel "not enough"… is when you’re using someone else as your ruler.

The Reframe:
The journey is yours. The timeline is yours.
And your enoughness? Never up for debate.

2. Fear of Letting Go

The Lie: Comfort is safety.
The Truth: Familiar isn’t the same as aligned.

Your brain craves what’s known, even if what’s known is draining you.
But here’s the sacred question: Is this getting me closer to the life I’m here to create?
If not… it’s already costing you more than you realize.

The Reframe:
You are the asset.
If it’s not appreciating you, it’s depreciating you.

3. Undervaluing Your Magic

The Lie: You’re nothing special.
The Truth: You’re an unrepeatable frequency.

Most of us were conditioned to dim so we could belong.
But self-love asks you to shine, even if your light makes someone else squint.

The Reframe:
Value sees value.
So stand with people who see you clearly.

4. Believing Self-Love is a Destination

The Lie: You’ll arrive when you finally feel it.
The Truth: You arrive when you remember.

Self-love isn’t linear. It’s layered. It’s alive.
Some days you’ll forget. That doesn’t mean you’ve failed, it means you’re human.

The Reframe:
This isn’t a race. It’s a rhythm.
Let your becoming take the time it takes.

5. Pushing Too Hard

The Lie: You just need to try harder.
The Truth: You already are enough.

Burnout is not a badge of honor. Self-abandonment isn’t a strategy.
And productivity isn’t the same as purpose.

The Reframe:
More being. Less proving.
Your worth doesn’t live in your output.

6. The Endless “Shoulds”

The Lie: You should be further by now.
The Truth: You are exactly where you’re meant to be.

External expectations are loud. But your soul? She speaks in whispers.
And every time you chase a “should,” you abandon a sacred yes.

The Reframe:
You don’t exist to meet expectations.
You exist to embody truth.

7. Unhealed Roots

The Lie: If I ignore it, it’ll go away.
The Truth: What you don’t heal, you repeat.

Sometimes the struggle with self-love isn’t about this moment, it’s about the one you never got to process.
The little you who’s still waiting to be seen.

The Reframe:
Your healing is not a burden.
It’s your birthright.
You were born worthy, and nothing that’s happened changes that.

8. Waiting for Someone Else to Go First

The Lie: I’ll love myself when they do.
The Truth: It starts with you.

No one is coming to crown you.
That’s your job.

The Reframe:
You are not a reflection of how others treat you.
You are the standard.
And you set the tone for everything that follows.

Let This Be the Reminder

Self-love isn’t about arriving.
It’s about returning, again and again, to what was never lost.

And if you’re walking this path…
Know this: I’m walking it too.

Even after building a multi-million dollar brand around worthiness, I still meet the younger version of me in quiet moments.
I still pause. I still re-anchor. I still remember.

Because self-love isn’t a one-time choice.
It’s a lifetime of re-choosing.

And you, love?
You’re doing better than you think.
You’re closer than you know.

This isn’t about perfection.
It’s about presence.
It’s about power.
It’s about anchoring your worth, and never forgetting it again.

With you always,

Amanda
Chief Worthiness Officer – Worthy Wands